posted by on Aug 22

You are dating a beautiful but a shy girl or one that is not a talkie. You have already talked about your hobbies, your families and your jobs and nothing else come into your mind and she is not really helping you (that’s what you believe).

One of the best ways of having a good, healthy and wholesome chat with your girlfriend is to start with small talk. The small talk will give you a general picture about her likes and dislikes, as well as what she would like to discuss and what she would rather leave alone. Once the small talk gives you a general idea, you can go ahead and discuss your common likes and dislikes.

But what is really freaking you are those moment of silence. Uhh… horrible moments. :) The key to avoid or get over these horrible moments are:

1. Compliment her

The fact is most people are shy about meeting new people. I used to be enormously shy. But when you think about it, shyness is merely a fear that
others won’t like you, or that you may be rejected in some way. It’s natural for us to desire acceptance. So try to make her know that you like her by making a compliment. But find something that you really find attractive about her, about her lifestyle or her personality.  She will become more confident and more open to share her believes and her shyness won’t be a problem for a fluid conversation.

2. Asking open questions

How you ask questions is very important in establishing a basis for an effective
communication. Effective questions open the door to knowledge and understanding. The art of questioning lies in knowing which questions to ask when.

My favorites questions are “why” and “how” questions. You can use these frequently without being annoying. She will feel that you are interested in what she is telling you and will develop her answers.

Therefore, you should think carefully before speaking and taking up subjects that might be repugnant to her.

3. Listen, listen, and listen.

Usually when the woman starts talking about her favorite subjects (feelings, family, relationships, friends and her work) many men lose interest or bring the conversation back to themselves. This is one of the biggest mistake
men are doing all the time.

They also like to exchange jokes and anecdotes and spend a fair amount of time playing one-up and boasting. Stop doing that!!!

Allow HER to have HER points of view, while you have yours. Men have felt like they have either had to abandon their own beliefs in order to try to get a woman, OR they had to fight with women about what they believe in. Both approaches lead to failure.

She is not there with you just to hear about your hero “qualities”, but to have a great time!

posted by on May 11

In our days, in this big world, there are a lot of single people who spend their life alone. There are a lot of wonderful ladies out there just waiting to meet the man of their dreams,hoping that someday this will appear. Also, many single men would like to meet their special one, but the only problem is that they don’t know very well where to find the woman they want.

Learn to meet new people. In this fast paced world, too many people out there are lonely. Change your attitude and get out there and make
new friends.

So, if you want to meet someone new, you should start by spending your time in the places most visited by women, the best places to meet them.

1. Through friends and family. Surely you have a lot of friends. If you are single, you should spend much time with the boys, go with them at parties. This is a good opportunity to meet special girls which they probably know and help you to get the one you like. It is one of the most easy way to meet someone because your friends presents you the girl and all you have to do is to get know her better.

2. At work. Maybe you are a very busy man working till late and don’t have time to go out to looking for a partner. In this case, the best partner for you is somebody who is as busy as you are and understands the reason why you don’t have too much time for her. If you are surrounded by many women at your work, watch out because therecan be the perfect woman for you.

3. The mall. We all know that women love to go shopping. That’s why mall is always full of women especially at the clothing area. From the big number of girls meet here you can choose the oneyou want and start a conversation with her by offering your service to help her carry her bags. It’s just a beginning, you’ll see if you have achange to get a date with her.

4. At the gym. Why to keep making sport at home, alone , when you can go to the gym, a place with many beautiful women, with a perfect body. It’s a
good opportunity to show that you are in a very good shape too and attract the athletic and beautiful woman you ever dreamed of.

5. Museums and art galleries. Here you can find women that are better educated. You must act with some elegance and refinement here. If you don’t
know anything about the artists or pieces, act with confidence and try to find out something about the exhibit.

6. Public places: theater, cinema, disco, parks. We all know that a woman who is single doesn’t like to spend her time alone in the house. She likes to go out with their friends hoping to find a partner. So, go to a disco, have fun and there
you have all the chances to find your special one.

7. Group dance lessons. There are a lot of women who like to dance. You should follow some dance lessons not only because in this place are a lot
of beautiful women, but it is important to know to dance. Also it is a good chance to approaching women, some of the dances being very sensual and exciting.

8. Jewelry stores. I think that is no woman who doesn’t like jewelries. Women are very preoccupied on how they look that’s why they like to change their jewelries very often.

9. College. It’s a place with an abundance of women everywhere you look. It’s the perfect place to meet a young and smart girl like the one from your dreams. The advantage is that you can choose from a big number of girls.

10. Internet personals. If you don’t like to go out with your friends and prefer to spend your time alone in the house in front of your computer, you may find a partner online. It is a very easy way to meet someone and make new friends. After you get to know better a girl online you may ask her for a date. It will be more easily for you to win her at your date now that you already know how she’s thinking and what she likes.

posted by on Feb 10

Why are some relationships more honest than others? Why are some couples more truthful with each other while others like to deceive the partner? Nobody deserves to be lied, but there are no doubts that women are telling lies considerably and often. But so men do the same.

If you have trust issues in your relationship, in general, a woman may lie to you. Trust is something that you must build from the beginning of the relationship. Even though, a lot of people say ‘‘white lies” in order to make others feel better. Some women lie because, as caring creatures they want to spare the feelings of the man they are dating or seeing.

So, here are some common lies told by women that you should know. Someday you might hear them from your partner and it is better to know their real meaning.

1.You’re perfect. I love you just the way you are and I wouldn’t change a thing about you. Let’s be serious; nobody is perfect. At the beginning of a relationship all of them say this because they didn’t know you very well but after some time will definitely find something that needs changed. So, if she tells you something like this, don’t be too enthusiastic because she finds you perfect just for a couple of days, and after that she will ask you to change.

2.You’re right. Every time you are arguing with you’re girlfriend usually ends up by telling you that you are right? Maybe this makes you feel proud of you, but you have to know that this is a big lie. She said this just to make you shut up, even if she didn’t consider that you’re right. She knows that after a while you will see that she was right, and may be waiting for apologize.

3.Nothing is wrong. The most common lie ” I’m fine” when asked if there is something wrong is the most used by women. You see that she is upset, she is acting strange or doesn’t want to talk to you too much and ask her what is the problem she says that everything is fine. They don’t want to tell the real truth but they are expecting that men to figure out that something is wrong and those they had a mistake with something.

4.I do love sports honey. Maybe she agrees to stay and watch with you every week at a football game but this doesn’t really mean that she like it. She accepts to do this just to show you that she is different from other girls and you have common interest. You may be thinking that you have found the perfect girl for you, because not many of them would like to stay to watch football, but don’t be too happy because after a while she might had enough and get angry every time you sit down to watch a game.

5.I like spending time with your friends. At the beginning this is ok, but not too much. Even if they are good friends of you, she would like to spend more time alone with you and not with your friends. If she didn’t tell you already this, she will ask you to keep visits from your buddies at minimum and then she might keep pretending she loves them.

6.Your family is adorable, so I like spending time with your family. The truth? Maybe twice a month. Think about it. Do you really think that she likes to spend time with your family where everybody is criticizing her and watch her every move? She agrees to spend time with your family when is necessary but she doesn’t do it with much pleasure even if she is pretending in front of you that she likes them.

7.Your bank account doesn’t matter. I hope you didn’t believe this. We all know that this is definitely a lie. All women want a guy that is financial stable and independent, a guy that can assure her a future with no financial problems. This doesn’t mean that you have to be very rich to have a girlfriend, but you have to have some money.

8.It doesn’t bother to me if you look after women or go with your boys at strip-clubs. This is too good to be truth. Even she says that this is ok, she will definitely be upset that you want to go. They hate to feel second best to a night out with the guys, and accept this in order to make themselves seem less pathetically needy. If you choose to go, she will make you a lot of comments after, so you better think twice before you go.

9.You are very good in bed. If she choose to speak about this topic without you ask her, you don’t have to believe all she says. If she starts to compliment you about your sexual experience it doesn’t mean that she really believes that. Often a woman who cares about a man tell him all that she knows he wants to hear just to make him feel good about himself. So think about your girlfriend, your relationship, your sexual experience and see if you really deserve compliments on this topic.

10.Don’t worry, it happens to everyone. If you just make a mistake, or fail in bed, you might hear this lie from your girlfriend. She doesn’t want to show you how upset she is on you but in her mind thinks something else. I wouldn’t be too sure that your mistake is forgiven and I would worry in not making too many ” accidents” like these.

With all these presented, now will be more easy for you to know when your girlfriend is lying. As you see, what a woman says is not what she really thinks.